This is a plan I had in mind for long now – To start on regular basis a Guest Post. And here is the first one of the same. This post is a collection of thoughts of three friends, Ahmed Bhaijaan, myself and Adi.
“If I promise to miss you, will you go away and leave me alone???? “
Have you ever felt like telling this to some at any time of your life? I know it sounds rude but there comes a time when you can’t take any more and at any cost really want to have some space. But there are some who won’t let you, not when you request them, not when you try to be aloof, not even when you have gone miles away from them. They are always following you like a spy satellite monitoring your every motions. They are so obsessed with you that they just can’t leave you alone and it is at those times you realize how crowded your life can get!!!
There any many human beings obsessed with something or the other!!! People obsessed with some personal stuff seems to be fine up to some extent but when it comes to their obsession for person(s), then what can be done? Should they be ignored, should we run away from them, or go into deep hibernation until after eternity? If yes, then what is the limit because the more we ignore them, they feel that we are weak and they continue to haunt you and invade your privacy. When I asked a friend, my friend suggested to slap such obsessed people real hard!!! The logic being – in the obsessed persons mind there is a chemical imbalance and may be after getting some real tight slaps, the chemical balance will work itself out and he/she will become normal!!!
You know obsession can make one immediately blame the person they are obsessed with, for every little thing that happens to them!!! whether they don’t like the food, or they slipped in the washroom or the dog bit them or they suffered a loss in business or the share market crashed – blame it all on that “person” !!! they spend more time thinking/cursing the person that they forget they have their own lives to live as well !!!
To explain this in more detail – imagine you have some great friends and one obsessed person. The obsessed one will immediately feel frustrated that you have such good friends and instead of trying to figure out why he or she lacks them, will be too busy to haunt you and trying to find out ways to break them apart from you !!!! One can’t even imagine up to what low level they can stoop to have things their way. They can cross any limit so much so that they won’t think twice to invade your privacy by hook or by crook. In earlier times such people used to rob letters but now they hack email accounts !!!. people suffering from obsession either directly or through some other willing person look into others personal stuff such as Private Mail, chat logs done with friend etc etc
They think they are doing something smart, and no one can catch them, but is that really the case? An ostrich hides its head in the sand and feels it is hidden, but the truth of the matter is – the body of the ostrich gives it away…. !!!! and, then what? What self respect are they left with …or are they so obsessed that their self respect means nothing to them?